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Few phrases sound more caring than “How can I help?” We use it at hospital bedsides, after funerals, in online comments, and in church hallways. It seems compassionate. It seems Christian. But often, those words don’t lead to anything. The person in pain nods politely. “I’m okay. Thanks.” We walk away feeling relieved, thinking weContinue reading ““How Can I Help?”: Words That Can Actually Hurt”