Few things are more frustrating than trying to help someone you care about, only to see them ignore your efforts. You offer gentle advice, share Scripture, and show concern, but nothing changes. Whether it’s a friend making poor choices, a family member stuck in harmful habits, or a fellow believer who won’t accept correction, youContinue reading “When A Brother (or Sister) Won’t Listen”
Category Archives: Growing in Christ
“How Can I Help?”: Words That Can Actually Hurt
Few phrases sound more caring than “How can I help?” We use it at hospital bedsides, after funerals, in online comments, and in church hallways. It seems compassionate. It seems Christian. But often, those words don’t lead to anything. The person in pain nods politely. “I’m okay. Thanks.” We walk away feeling relieved, thinking weContinue reading ““How Can I Help?”: Words That Can Actually Hurt”
When Boundaries Become Unbiblical
Boundaries, at their best, are a biblical tool for managing our hearts, relationships, and responsibilities. They help define where we end and others begin. As Henry Cloud writes in his book Boundaries, “Boundaries define us. They define what is me and what is not me.” Scripture affirms the value of wise limits: These verses highlightContinue reading “When Boundaries Become Unbiblical”
McDonald’s and Disciple Making: A Simple, Effective Strategy for Meeting
3-minute read For many of us, McDonald’s is just a fast-food restaurant, but it can also be a strategic meeting place for disciple-makers. I’ve found that gathering at McDonald’s for coffee provides a consistent, low-cost, and accessible setting for disciple-making. Here’s why—and how you can leverage this approach in your disciple-making efforts. (Apologies to myContinue reading “McDonald’s and Disciple Making: A Simple, Effective Strategy for Meeting”
You Don’t Have to Grow Alone: Finding a Discipler
Discipleship is at the heart of the Christian life, modeled by Jesus Himself in His relationships with His followers. Finding someone to disciple you can be a crucial step if you desire to grow spiritually and deepen your faith. This guide explores how to seek out and approach a mature believer who can help youContinue reading “You Don’t Have to Grow Alone: Finding a Discipler”
Toby DeHay 