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For many of us, McDonald’s is just a fast-food restaurant, but it can also be a strategic meeting place for disciple-makers. I’ve found that gathering at McDonald’s for coffee provides a consistent, low-cost, and accessible setting for disciple-making. Here’s why—and how you can leverage this approach in your disciple-making efforts. (Apologies to my new friend Joel. He owns a coffee shop in a town northeast of me. His place is now my go-to when I’m in his town!)
1. McDonald’s are Everywhere
One of the biggest advantages of using McDonald’s as a meeting place is its sheer availability. No matter where you are, you’re likely to find one nearby. This makes it easy to set a predictable location for meeting with those you are discipling, whether at home or while traveling.
2. Affordable and Low-Pressure Environment
A cup of coffee at McDonald’s is inexpensive, making it an accessible option for anyone. I use their app, and some of the time, I can get any sized cup for $0.99!! Unlike higher-end coffee shops, where the cost might be a barrier, McDonald’s allows you to meet without financial strain. It also provides a casual setting where people don’t feel pressured to buy more than they can afford.
3. Consistency Builds Relationships
Meeting at the same McDonald’s on the same days creates an opportunity to get to know the employees and regular customers. Over time, you learn their names, hear their stories, and have natural opportunities to pray for them or share the gospel. Your presence becomes a witness in the community. At the Mc’y D’s by my house, the manager always comes to find me, asks about the missing guy, and receives prayer and encouragement gladly! If my coffee order takes too long, they are making a fresh pot for me! So kind!! Ba da ba ba baaaa!!
4. A Neutral, Public Setting
Some people may be hesitant to meet in a home or a church setting, but a public place like McDonald’s removes that barrier. It’s a relaxed environment where conversations can happen naturally without feeling overly formal. I don’t have to worry if my home is presentable or if the person is too far from the church building.
A friend recently met with a young believer at McDonalds because the young man had his kids with him. The kids played in the Playplace while my friend encouraged him over coffee or soda.
5. Predictability Encourages Commitment
When meetings happen in the same place at the same time, it’s easier for both the disciple-maker and the disciple to stay committed. Consistency helps develop habits, and a regular rhythm of meetings makes discipleship more sustainable.
6. Opportunities for Spontaneous Gospel Conversations
Public places invite organic interactions. Someone may overhear your conversation, ask what you’re studying, or join in. Employees and other customers might ask about your Bible or devotional book, providing an easy opportunity to share the gospel. A few months ago, a man was watching us pray. He came over and asked if we were a people of prayer. When we said “Yes,” he asked if he could join us for a minute. Another time, the manager asked what we were doing. We were able to share about the book we were reading together as well as the gospel!
7. A Model Others Can Easily Follow
Using McDonald’s as a meeting place removes barriers to disciple-making. Anyone can grab coffee and open the Bible with someone else. This model is easy to replicate, encouraging others to do the same.
McDonald’s may not be a traditional setting for discipleship, but it’s a practical and effective one. By intentionally using everyday places like this, we create simple, repeatable patterns that allow discipleship to flourish in our daily lives. So, next time you grab a coffee at McDonald’s, consider how it might become more than just a caffeine stop—it could be the starting point for lifelong spiritual growth.
If you don’t care for McDonalds or are in a different culture/context, what principles can you gain to achieve the goal of regularly meeting in a “third place?”
Toby DeHay 